I'm pregnant and nearly about to have this baby but I'm just not getting used to the idea of starting all over again when I have much older children. In my 20s it was easy. My husband is in his 40s now and I'm not far behind. I'm sad to say I'm looking at all the negatives. I'm crying most days, I have no energy, and I'm very scared. I'm sure there are others on here who were or are in a similar boat. How did you get through it?