My partner 35 yo still goes to nightclub every now and then, we have 6 months old. Personally I've only been to one before I had kids with my friends. But now I cant even leave my baby for long time let alone going out drink until late. But, why partner seems much easier to go out and come home late like he still single? I understand he needs to go out and have fun, does it have to be at nightclub and coming home late or the next day tho? I thought that would be expiry age when dad stop going to nightclub and feel like that stuff too young for them. I mean he has family to look after, surely there are other things men can do beside that? I just dont like the idea, I am trapped with my bub (I am not complaining) and he just so easy to get loose, going to places where there are lots of younger girls obviously more attractive, meanwhile I am home still not recover and adjusting being mum who never look after myself anymore due to exhaustion. I trust him but guess my hormone makes me feel insecure, added with lack of sex. Everytime I try to talk to him that this bother me so much, he just doesnt care and say that he just wanna hanging out with his mate. He does hang out with mate sometimes 3x a week after work, but its not enough for him.
I am sorry I just dont know who to talk about this and too embarrassed to ask my mums friends and afraid being judged.
How old is ur partner? Does he still go to night club? What does he do for relaxing or have fun with mate?